Yes, people work very hard at tricking you. They bribe. They intimidate. They coerce you into taking the blue pill. But in the end, you have to put it in your own mouth. The blue pill exists in you only as much as you allow it to exist.
Unless, that is, outside forces have medicated you. This is not an impossible thing today. But it less unlikely.
You have to decide not to seek more. You have to decide you are afraid of failure. You have to decide you are willing to live a life you hate, because you do not trust your own ability to make it better. You are the one who have to decide that trusting somebody else to master you is better than mastering yourself. You have to decide that life if more rewarding if you remain a child.
Nobody else will do that for you. It has to be you.
Professor Harbinger's School for Villains 